You're living the dream on the other side of the planet - but home doesn't disappear. Birthdays, your mum's worried texts, a mate's wedding you're missing: staying in touch keeps you grounded and stops the homesickness from creeping in around month three. The good news is that keeping close has never been cheaper or easier. Here's how to bridge the distance without it costing a fortune or eating your whole evening.
Crack the time difference first
The biggest hurdle isn't technology - it's the clock. Australia is hours ahead of most of the world, and getting the timing wrong means texting people while they sleep.
- The UK and Europe are roughly 8-11 hours behind eastern Australia (it shifts with daylight saving on both ends).
- The US west coast is a brutal 17-18 hours behind - early Aussie mornings or late nights are your only overlap.
- Within Australia itself there are three main time zones, and not every state does daylight saving, so even calling a mate in Perth from Sydney needs a moment's thought.
Find one or two reliable weekly windows that work for both ends - Sunday morning your time is often Saturday evening back home in Europe, perfect for a proper catch-up. Lock it in as a routine so nobody's left waiting.
Use a world-clock app or pin your home city's time to your phone so you stop doing the maths every time.
Get online cheaply the moment you land
Everything below needs data, so sort connectivity on arrival. An eSIM lets you have a working connection before you've even left the airport - no hunting for a SIM shop with a 20kg pack on your back.
Airalo Australia eSIM sells Australian eSIMs you can install before you fly, giving you instant data on landing to message home that you've arrived safely and order a lift. It's the easiest bridge for your first days, and handy again whenever you nip across to New Zealand or through Asia on the way home. Once you're settled, a local prepaid SIM usually gives you more data for everyday life - but for that critical first arrival, an eSIM is gold.
Free and cheap video and voice calls
You almost never need to pay for an actual phone call any more. Over wifi or data:
- WhatsApp - the global default for messages, voice notes and video calls. Practically everyone has it.
- FaceTime - if your family is on Apple, it's seamless and high quality.
- Messenger, Telegram and Signal - all do free voice and video.
- Zoom or Google Meet - great for a multi-person family call when you want everyone in one window.
Tips to keep it smooth:
- Call over wifi where you can - hostel, cafe or library - to save mobile data.
- For shaky connections, voice or audio-only beats a frozen video every time.
- Voice notes are a backpacker lifesaver across time zones - record a rambling update whenever, they listen whenever. No scheduling needed.
- Share a few photos or a quick clip rather than narrating everything - people love seeing the place, not just hearing about it.
Sorting your post and mail
Going off-grid into farm work or van life makes a fixed address tricky. Options:
- Poste restante - Australia Post will hold mail addressed to you at a nominated post office for collection. Address it with your name, "Poste Restante", and the post office. Bring photo ID to collect. Ideal when you've no fixed address.
- A trusted hostel or a mate's place - some hostels hold mail for guests; always ask first.
- Go paperless at home before you leave - banks, bills and official letters online so nothing important sits in a hallway back home.
- Have someone at home scan and email anything genuinely important rather than posting it across the world.
For the occasional parcel, expect international shipping to be slow and pricey - travel light and only post what truly matters.
Sending money home (and getting it back)
Whether it's repaying a loan, topping up your home account, or sending savings back at the end of your trip, don't use a high-street bank for international transfers - the hidden exchange-rate margin can cost you 3-5%.
Wise (multi-currency account) gives you the real mid-market exchange rate with a small, transparent fee, plus a multi-currency account and Aussie account details. It's the backpacker standard for moving money between countries - quick, cheap and clear about exactly what lands at the other end. Set up the recipient once and future transfers take seconds from the app.
A few money-home tips:
- Compare the amount that actually arrives, not just the headline fee.
- Batch larger transfers rather than lots of tiny ones to minimise fixed costs.
- Watch the timing - rates move, but don't obsess; transferring when you need to is fine.
Beating homesickness, not just distance
Staying connected is as much habit as tech:
- Set a regular call routine so it doesn't slip.
- Share the good and the dull - the everyday stuff makes people feel part of your life.
- Don't live on your phone, though - you came here for here. Check in, then get back out the door.
Sort your data on arrival, find your time-zone sweet spot, lean on free apps, and use a proper transfer service for money. Do that and home stays close, even from the far side of the world.
tools we rate for this
20GB / 30 days for ~$34. Activates the second you land.
Hold AUD, spend at the real exchange rate, dodge bank fees.
